{"id":8422,"date":"2015-03-04T19:58:21","date_gmt":"2015-03-04T19:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/?p=8422"},"modified":"2017-05-16T17:25:16","modified_gmt":"2017-05-17T00:25:16","slug":"are-ethics-situational","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/are-ethics-situational\/","title":{"rendered":"Are Ethics Situational?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Hello?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hi, this is John from Acme Software.&#8221; I just wanted you to know that my boss forwarded me your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike1.png\" rel='magnific'><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-8423 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike1.png\" alt=\"Mike1\" width=\"287\" height=\"213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike1.png 287w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike1-250x186.png 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 287px) 100vw, 287px\" \/><\/a>voicemail and I do not appreciate you going over my head. I&#8217;ve told you that we have not yet made a decision since this is not a priority for our company at this time. However, as a result of your behavior, we will not EVER\u00a0do business with you or your company.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This was a conversation I was part of 15 years ago&#8230;of course the names have been changed to protect the innocent.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not proud to admit that I was the person who said &#8220;Hello.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I was 24 years old and in my first 6 months of my first outside sales position. I was trying desperately to hit my quota and listened (sometimes too much) to the advice on &#8220;how to succeed&#8221; from other salespeople around me.<\/p>\n<p>It usually went like this:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If a customer won&#8217;t respond and the value of your offer is strong, go to their boss! Your contact is probably just flaky and will probably be fired in the next year, for their incompetence anyway. It&#8217;s their fault for not even responding to your follow up voicemails and emails. Their boss needs to know they&#8217;re dropping the ball.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2.png\" rel='magnific'><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-8424 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2-300x206.png\" alt=\"Mike2\" width=\"300\" height=\"206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2-300x206.png 300w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2-250x172.png 250w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2-582x400.png 582w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/Mike2.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Back to the phone call&#8230; When that guy called me, my first reaction was anger.\u00a0 I&#8217;m competitive and a little stubborn, so my first reaction was to hate the decision maker for chewing me out. But with years comes perspective, and now I feel remorse and am happy to have learned a valuable lesson. I will never do that again because I KNOW it&#8217;s not the kind of person I want to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ethics trumps money<\/strong>. In fact, it trumps EVERYTHING. I&#8217;ve also learned that you can be extremely ethical and ignore all of the unethical &#8220;sales techniques&#8221; that are taught by 90% of sales training&#8230; and still be very successful in sales. Actually, I know you can be MORE successful.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>So what does Mike\u2019s stumble have to do with me?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cYou judge yourself by your Ethical Principals. Others judge you by your actions.\u201d<\/em><em><br \/>\n<\/em><em>&#8211; Harvin C. Moore<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I think ethics needs to be discussed more. Not in general, but specific examples. I think most people <strong>think <\/strong>they&#8217;re ethical but do others agree?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3.png\" rel='magnific'><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-8425 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3-300x225.png\" alt=\"mike3\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3-250x188.png 250w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3-533x400.png 533w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike3.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Sure, nobody&#8217;s perfect and we all make mistakes&#8230; just like me. I&#8217;m ashamed to say that prospect (above), would probably think I&#8217;m a slime ball if he saw me today. If I ever recognized him, I&#8217;d apologize for being a fool.<\/p>\n<p>We need to give grace to one another but we also need to be mindful of our sometimes &#8220;situational&#8221; unethical behavior. Ethics is an &#8220;always&#8221; principal, not a discretionary principal.\u00a0 If we allow for grey area, we allow for frequent mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I\u2019m going to pose two examples (in relationship to IT buying and IT sales), that we all see on a regular basis, and put it up for discussion. Maybe I\u2019ll do another one in another blog if I think you\u2019d be interested.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>No More &#8220;Principals&#8221; &#8230; Just Situations<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Here are two actions, I see ALL the time. Do you? What do you think?<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Salesperson<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">A salesperson has a potential client that has been pushing their decision for months. The pricing is great and the rep can\u2019t figure out what\u2019s holding the client from pulling the trigger. The salesperson has tried on several occasions to ask for feedback but the decision maker is not giving very much information as to why they are not making a decision.\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4.png\" rel='magnific'><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-8426 size-medium alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4-300x225.png\" alt=\"mike4\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4-250x188.png 250w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4-533x400.png 533w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/mike4.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nAs a result, the salesperson decides to tell the client \u201cBad news! The promotion I offered is actually expiring this month, so if you want that price, you\u2019ll have to sign up right away!\u201d \u2026knowing full-well that the promo is not ending anytime soon. She thinks, \u201cMaybe this client just needs a reason to sign\u2026\u201d The strategy works and the client signs up and is very happy with the service, long-term.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Decision Maker<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>A decision maker tells a salesperson \u201cCan you do any better on the pricing?\u00a0 We have received a couple bids lower than this.\u201d\u00a0 In reality, the buyer has not received a lower bid but is just bluffing to see if he can get the salesperson to drop the price further. It works! The salesperson drops the price lower and the customer buys their product. Both parties are happy about the result.<\/p>\n<p><em>Did either of these people act unethically?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>About the Author<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-9772 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/mikesmith.png\" alt=\"mikesmith\" width=\"88\" height=\"131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/mikesmith.png 181w, https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/mikesmith-135x200.png 135w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 88px) 100vw, 88px\" \/><\/strong><br \/>\nMike Smith is the Founder and President of AeroCom and has been helping companies with telecom and cloud services since 1999. He\u00a0has been the recipient of numerous business telecommunications industry awards and in 2011, he was honored as one of the <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"http:\/\/mydigitalpublication.com\/publication\/index.php?i=68145&amp;m=&amp;l=&amp;p=53&amp;pre=&amp;ver=swf\" target=\"_blank\">top 40<\/a><\/span> business people in Orange County, CA., under 40 years old. Follow Mike\u00a0on <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/mikesmithaerocom\/\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn<\/a>,\u00a0<a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/MikeSmithsBrain\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter<\/a><\/span> or <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/community.spiceworks.com\/people\/mike-aerocominccom?source=navbar-subnav\" target=\"_blank\">SpiceWorks<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Hello?&#8221; &#8220;Hi, this is John from Acme Software.&#8221; I just wanted you to know that my boss forwarded me your voicemail and I do not appreciate you going over my head. I&#8217;ve told you that we have not yet made<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/are-ethics-situational\/\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\">Read more &#8250;<\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":8426,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[356],"tags":[426,424,428,379,592,591,271,564,901],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8422"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8426"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aerocominc.com\/info\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}